I see an old colleague in the cafe near the office. She hasn’t been well, I heard. Getting forgetful.
I join her.
Hi, Rachel, remember me?
Oh, hi! What are you doing now?
Same old, same old. What about you? What have you been up to these days?
Oh, I’m giving it up. I’m going to stop it all. My last position, volunteering at the hospice… It will end in two months.
Really retiring now, finally, eh? What do you really look forward to?
Er.. reading. It’s so important. To read a good book.…. Say, what are you doing nowadays?
Just the usual …. What are your plans the rest of today?
After this, I’m going to the bank. And then… I’m going home. Next week, I’m taking a holiday.
That’s fantastic. Where are you going?
To Malaysia. Be close to nature. I find it… refreshing, really refreshing. You know, this place, really difficult to find the way. Bad design.
Yes, there’ve been a lot of changes. New shops. It doesn’t look anything like what it used to.
Yes, yes.
Look, let me not hold you back. Can I walk you back to your car? Where did you park?
The usual place. Level 2.
I was getting really concerned. There are no carparks on Level 2.
Do you remember which lift you took? Look, I’ll bring you down the lift nearer our offices. We’ll start looking there.
We found her car ten minutes later and she drove off. I looked after her with concern. What will she do? Who will look after her? She didn’t have family and lived on her own. Probably her friends will have to band together. I made a mental note to look them up.
How fortunate that you were there and not only able to help but aware of the possible need. We all need to look out for others.
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I look for dementia everywhere. It’s often more common than we think.
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I know a couple of friends becoming lost. I worry.
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😦
Hope they’ll be alright.
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One can only hope the fog stays away. 🙂
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Greetings! It’s wonderful to encounter kindred spirits from the other side of our beautiful planet. I would like to share your video on the web site I am developing. If you can reach out & let me know how to contact you directly, I would appreciate it: tracey@lightofgray.com
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Thanks. It’s a public video produced by the Agency for Integrated Care (AIC) of Singapore, available on YouTube.
Keep up the good work sharing valuable info on dementia, Tracey.
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so good of you to think like that – it takes a community to take care of each other..
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You’re so right. We need to make the environment safer for those with dementia.
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Hopefully it’s something treatable. Maybe it’s just depression or some other event in her life that is making her forgetful.
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I hope it’s treatable too.
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